In my last post, I shared the first two of the Six Questions to ask yourself before implementing a new idea in your Kids Ministry:
1) “Have I Prayed About It?”
2) “What Does My Pastor Think About The Idea?”
Now, we continue with Questions 3 & 4:
QUESTION #3 – “Does the idea resonate with the hearts of my team?”
After your pastor gives you the go-ahead, consult with your ministry team. These people have the same passion as yours to impact the lives of the children in your church and community. Share the plan with them while your idea is still in its early stages. Don’t wait until you have the entire strategy fleshed out before you bring it to the team for feedback. The longer you work on an idea before you present it, the less likely you’re going to be willing to change course. If leaders develop a plan too far before they talk to their teams, they can become emotionally invested in an idea and refuse to listen to any suggestions. When they don’t listen to their team members, trust erodes.
I remember when I thought I had a great idea for a Halloween outreach. I wanted to call it “The Candy Factory.” It was going to provide a full array of experiences, entertainment, fun, and best of all . . . candy! I worked on the idea for weeks and weeks before I brought it to the team. When I finally presented it to them, they immediately had questions about it. They questioned the plans, the schedule, the execution, and the very idea itself. I became defensive. I’d worked several weeks on it, and this was my baby! How dare they question an idea in which I had invested so much time!
If the members of your team—the people whose hearts are aligned with yours and who care as much about kids as you do—believe the idea stinks, you better listen to them.
QUESTION #4 – “Do I have the support of the parents in my ministry?”
This question applies especially to those who are young in ministry and have no children of their own. It is easy for young singles or couples without kids to miss red flags that are obvious to parents. Checking with them before an event can save you lots of headaches in the long run.
Many of you have read about the infamous Easter Egg Hunt that ended up in disaster (for the full story, get my book “I Blew It!”). I planned an egg hunt for pre-schoolers on a steep drainage ditch and gave them Atomic Fireballs in their eggs. If I’d taken a few minutes to talk to parents before the Easter Egg Hunt, they would have told me that it’s inappropriate to have Atomic Fireballs and jawbreakers in plastic eggs on steep hillsides with big rocks for an event for preschoolers (or anyone else for that matter). They would have spoken up. They would have told me the hard, cold truth, and I would have seen that it was an idiotic idea to hold a preschool egg hunt on Drainage Ditch Hill. Parents would have looked me in the eye and told me, “Pastor Brian, the children will choke on those Atomic Fireballs. Are you insane?”
But it didn’t cross my mind to ask any of the parents. Solomon advises us (me especially), “With many counselors, there is safety” (Proverbs 11:14 NLT).
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